What to tell the grandchildren?

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 2/4/2022

Last night we spoke to our northern CA family. This issue of "how to tell the kids"came up. One is only two but the other two, with whom we are very close are 4 1/2 and 6. They are bright and precocious. 

I bought 

Nana Has Cancer, But Cancer Does Not Have Nana by Deborah Kim.


We decided that reading them a story over zoom made sense. Next week or after I see the surgeon, I will ask them to sit down and pay attention. They will and they will probably ask questions most of which we are prepared to answer. Here's hoping it goes well!!


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