Love

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 I was inspired to post this because 1. August 20, 1996 is the day my dad died and 2. He loved us with all his being, and 3. I am posting on a photo site for the topic love. 

We still have not been able to contact the kids or anyone. Once the Loomis Levys answered an e-mail because I reminded them that I was a social worker, that discipline can be too strict, that I've lost count over the number of nannies who have come and gone and none of this is good parenting. They retorted by saying they would get a restraining order. 

So, if anyone has any thoughts I would love to hear them. 

Remember we are 2500 miles away.


And the judge says "Why would you want to take these kids away from these grandparents? Oh because they indulge the kids? Hmm so do I, she says. Case dismissed and they will reimburse you for your plane ticket. 

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Recipes for living, loving and laughing said…
And know that this son was raised by a loving, devoted dad. Yes, blended families can be a nightmare. But this son did not even wish him a happy birthday. Someone shed light on this? Yes we took all 3 to Target and dinner instead of 1 or 2; yes we did buy them candy; no they did not stay up later that 8pm on the dot. Yes judge, what did we do wrong?
August 20, 2025 at 12:53 PM
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