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  Relationship with Narcissist ·  Follow Posted by  Angela T. Nicholson 10mo Can a narcissist be defeated? Yes they CAN! There are two ways: 1- The slow way: wait until they get old. as they age they make more mistakes and people around them - friends and even family start to see their true colors and walk away.. 2- The fast way (and the best way): LEAVE them! Live your life fully and show that you are doing much better without them. Narcissists believe you cant survive without them, when you prove you can thrive without them; they may try to drag you back - but you just ignore them and keep going! A narcissist is DEFEATED when they cant Control you! Nothing good ever comes from letting a narcissist control your life.. the best way to win is to avoid them, live well and stay free! Check out these links from Quora for more: 14 Things Narcissists Say to Gaslight You. 5 Weird Texting Habits of Narcissists. This is easier said than done; but let's try.

    Verissa Vinar Thu The Narcissist’s Pathological Envy of Your Character   One of the most confusing realizations survivors eventually come to is this: the narcissist didn’t mistreat you just because they were angry, difficult, or emotionally immature. On a much deeper level, they were reacting to something in you that they cannot tolerate — and that something is your character: your empathy, your conscience, your integrity, your ability to care deeply about other people. These qualities that make you who you are not just things the narcissist lacks; they are things the narcissist envies on a pathological level. The tragic irony is that the very traits that drew them to you in the beginning are often the  exact same traits they later  attack, undermine, and destroy. More to come! 

 I don't know why there is an ad here. I do not pay nor am I paid for this site. I was a Social Worker for Head Start (MSW). This diagnosis particularly interests me because I've known a couple!  A narcissist is really self-absorbent so they really don't care about anyone else but themselves . They keep on hurting people because it makes them feel good about themselves .And generally, all they want is pseudo power over others which they get after making others feel bad about themselves. Narcissists believe they are the guardians of truth and falsehood, and they have the right to punish as they see fit. Narcissists can get triggered by seemingly trivial matters. So you may not know why they’re punishing you, or even that they’re punishing you at all. Narcissists have many methods of punishment. However, they don’t always reveal why they’re treating you this way. So you may not know what’s going on. Because in your mind, you’ve done nothing wrong, and there’s no room for disc...