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For the grandkids

 This is for one grandkids who might read it someday. The least communication we had with your parents. Moving forward Inbox loomislevys Arik Levy <arik@l1vc.com> Tue, Aug 5, 2025, 11:44 PM to me, Elliott, Jessica Jess and I are writing to ask that you stop all forms of harassment directed at us, our family members, and those connected to us. You have repeatedly engaged in threatening, disparaging, and unwelcome communications, including numerous emails, text messages, and social media posts and messages. (Not true) These actions have caused significant emotional distress and have only served to widen the distance between us.   Your conduct, including making disparaging remarks on public social media platforms (such as posts on our children’s school’s page), contacting members of Jessica’s family with false or inflammatory statements, (not true) sending repeated harassing and threatening messages, and making threats to interfere with our children’s school, teachers, or c...

The story that has to be told

This was mostly written by Elliott. The year has taken its toll. When we were traveling to move to CA, he said "what if we get estranged?" I was baffled because it was unthinkable to me. His inner being sensed it could happen. My mom did not speak to my aunt for 10 years. We do not have 10 years. We are missing so much even it is on facetime.  It has been a year since Arik and Jessica terminated contact between Eliana, Mikayla and Dylan and their paternal grandparents.  This is the story that needs to be shared with the children. (I will add that I know this situation has escalated. There are support groups on Facebook for estranged family members. This story might work for others if published in a magazine. -May 2015.  Elliott, Arik’s dad, was in Sacramento for his regularly scheduled visit with his son.  Arik introduced his dad to Jessica, whom he met in Dec 2014.  The couple shared that they were pregnant.  Elliott called Joanne, Arik’s stepmother for th...

Cancer: is it back? Scanxiety

 That's what we call it. https://tiny.cc/# I had an exam, a mammogram, and an ultrasound. They all say I'm ok. However, a couple of months ago my left breast was itchy. That can be a sign of cancer. So I am terrified that my cancer has comeback. I'm anxious.
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  Narcissists are disordered, disturbed individuals. They have developed a disorder due to their poor upbringing, and even genetic factors also contribute to the development of narcissism.  Narcissists are truly evil people because they have control over their behavior depending upon the people they are with. Narcissists are chameleons. They will change their behavior according to their needs and desires.  Narcissists are aware of their manipulation and abuse. They abuse you to gain control and dominance over you to feel powerful in relationships. Narcissists will abuse you and play the victim to escape accountability and responsibility. Narcissists will destroy your life and move on to someone else who isn't aware of their behavior. Narcissists are evil in human disguise. Narcissists don't change even with help of treatment.