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The Narcissist’s Pathological Envy of Your Character

 One of the most confusing realizations survivors eventually come to is this: the narcissist didn’t mistreat you just because they were angry, difficult, or emotionally immature. On a much deeper level, they were reacting to something in you that they cannot tolerate — and that something is your character: your empathy, your conscience, your integrity, your ability to care deeply about other people. These qualities that make you who you are not just things the narcissist lacks; they are things the narcissist envies on a pathological level. The tragic irony is that the very traits that drew them to you in the beginning are often the exact same traits they later attack, undermine, and destroy.

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